what's with the waiting, people?

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Sent: Sunday, November 09, 2008 12:54 AM

Subject: to the best friend

To my best friend,I hope this is you, but pretty sure it can't be. So I'm not going to contact you...but if you contacted me, I'd be overjoyed.- a lost friend

(http://www.postsecreet.blogspot.com/)

this is what happened when people get caught in their own pride, lost a bestfriend. too much pride kills, right?